Snappy Hour June 25th!

Hi y’all! Our inaugural Snappy Hour was great, in case you were wondering. :) We’re planning on having another one on June 25th, from 4-6 in Fremont. If you’d like to reply, please get in touch! I don’t post 100% of the details because I don’t want any unannounced drop-ins to throw off our group’s vibe. […]

Upcoming Seattle Snappy Hour!

Hey lovebirds! You know how I’m always harping at you to get cuter pictures uploaded to your dating profile? Well, you’re in luck if you’re in the Seattle area! My photographer Jennifer and I are finally co-hosting our first much-buzzed-about Snappy Hour event. Here’s one of my favorite pictures of myself that Jennifer took, and one […]

Site may be down for a bit

Hey y’all, I’m finally migrating to that schmancy new host. The site may be unavailable for a few hours while things get transferred, but please hang in there. I’ll be back and better than ever oh so soon!

Site’s back up, finally!

Hey all, I’m so sorry the site was down for so dang long! Technical difficulties are so frustrating and embarrassing. Some tiny amount of down time is expected with any provider—but you know who ultimately helped me solve the technical issues my crappy host caused? Helpful strangers on the Internet. Yep, even after almost eight […]

My interview on Side Hustle Nation!

Hey lovebirds! You may have noticed I’ve been a little quiet so far this year—it’s not you, it’s totally me. I’ve been trying to hunker down and work on some bigger projects this year that always seem to slip away from me. Late last year I was on the wonderful Side Hustle Show with Nick […]

New Year’s Resolutions for lovebirds

Innards of a Roomba.

Hi Lovebirds! I hope you’re all going to have a wonderful safe time this New Year’s Eve. Enjoy your day tomorrow! Regular Heartographer business starts back up on the 2nd; I’m looking forward to getting back into the swing of things with y’all. I wrote a silly little piece of Medium about New Year’s Resolutions, […]

Thanksgiving and pushy relatives giving advice

Hi y’all! Hope you’re enjoying this day that is fantastically sunny and SUPER COLD here in Seattle. Ready for some minor Heartographer updates? -My November newsletter just went out! Don’t fret; if you missed it, you can still sign up and follow the links to get to the latest issue. It’s about dealing with online […]

Florida and back!

Hey lovebirds, I’m back! Wait, you didn’t know I was gone? …Yeah, sorry about that. I only remembered to tell my newsletter subscribers. But alas, I’m returned, and ready to party with you, and/or return to helping you find love online. :) I was in Florida, helping my mom recover from a planned surgery. It was […]

My first post on Medium

Hey lovebirds, hope you’ve had a great week! I wanted to share my first-ever piece on Medium, all about how much I dislike default text. There’s even some online dating relevancy in there: …straight guys, frustrated by low response rates from women, start to broaden their outreach by messaging a larger number of potentially less […]

Heartographer housekeeping

Hey folks, I hope you’ve had a fantastic week! I’ve had a quiet one, as you may have noticed. :) I’ve been kinda heads-down doing some revamping on the site—some of the important pages like Safety and Tech Tips no longer appear in the main menu, but you can still access them via the new […]

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